Sunday, February 06, 2011

Bring back hat-raising

I was walking down the Devon lanes last Thursday when an elderly gentleman raised his hat to me.

I was so delighted! It made my day. I smiled through the rest of the walk. (Even more than usual.) Then I spotted a glimpse of purple in the hedgerow. Surely not a violet? No, but a very pretty cyclamen.
The hat raising is a small gesture and sadly very outdated but such lovely manners make a woman feel ... womanly. It's not sexism or anything to do with class: I expect politeness from both sexes and I don't intend to tug my forelock to my betters. It's just that manners add a little bit extra that make the world the nicer place.

12 Comments:

Blogger jams o donnell said...

Hat raising is good manners... I never do it though as I never wear a hat!

7:28 PM  
Anonymous Ole Phat Stu said...

Know what made MY day? This hymn

http://vimeo.com/19416924

8:22 PM  
Blogger Leslie: said...

I'm with you on this one! :D

8:54 PM  
Blogger Welshcakes Limoncello said...

I couldn't agree more.

9:00 PM  
Blogger CherryPie said...

Much like when a man opens the door for you and you say thankyou and both parties enjoy the experience :-)

10:29 PM  
Blogger katney said...

In order to bring back hat raising, we have to bring back hats.

11:16 PM  
Blogger Gledwood said...

Is that a cyclamen? It looks like a wild orchid!

4:02 AM  
Blogger Gledwood said...

Trust me totally miss your point and remark on the flowers instead.

Hat raising is a totally good idea. Except that my hat makes me look like Benny from Crossroads and I don't think raising it and my hair going everywhere would be a particularly good look...

.... I'd just look even more mentalist than I already do ;-)

4:25 AM  
Blogger mrsnesbitt said...

Lovely Liz - I am sure your disposition contributed and I am sure you walked with a spring in your step, hence the deserved attention! Dxx

3:19 PM  
Blogger Liz said...

Not many men do, jams.

Thanks, Leslie, welshcakes and cherrypie.

that's true, katney.

It is, gledwood. It's only tiny, about violet-sized. You can't really look like Benny?!

Thanks, mrsn. Out with dogs and GrandDaughter, I certainly walked with a spring in my step!

4:11 PM  
Anonymous nick said...

Gosh, it's a very long time since I saw a man doff his hat to a woman! Probably because not many men wear hats these days. I wonder what the female equivalent would be? A curtsey? A wave of a delicately-gloved hand?

6:12 PM  
Blogger SmitoniusAndSonata said...

You haven't got any betters , so your forelock is safe !

6:27 AM  

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