The trouble is that, despite this hole in the mattress, it's still comfy.
The other problem is that we are arguing over a new bed: I want a king-size one.
When Husband worked away so much I got used to and enjoyed having lots of space to myself. Now I get edgy if I feel crowded. And I wriggle even more than usual. And I worry about waking up Husband. And the more I worry the more I become aware of wriggling which in turn increases my need to wriggle.
So really a bigger bed is the ideal solution but Husband says it wouldn't fit in the bedroom. I think we could make it. We could get rid of his bedside table, for example ...