Sunday, December 07, 2025

No fool like an old fool

I should have known better. Ordering a Christmas jumper online. It arrived. It looks like the picture, maybe not quite the same texture, but it drapes off my shoulders.

I decided to return it. Only to find a message from the seller along the lines of, we fooled you now we're not giving you back your money. The excuse is they're re-organising their warehouse and to contact them before returning goods. I'm trying to do that but don't hold out a lot of hope

I suspect if I return it I'll end up with neither jumper nor refund, so I'll have to pretend off-the-shoulder is THE look for this season. 

I was misled because the shop was called 4.9*Good Find* online store. I should have checked. My own fault. Looking at reviews now I see nothing but 1* and complaints.

I'm usually so careful but the jumper looked so pretty . . . as did the t-shirt I bought in another store. I'm not even going to think about that. 

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In much cheerier news, I was asked to light the second candle of Advent this morning in church, and to read a prayer for peace, today's theme. I wrote this prayer:

Prince of Peace
For our battle-torn, battle-worn world
we pray.
For the invaded and the invaders
Peace for the innocents
Justice for humanity
Courage for the peace-makers.
For our community
behind locked doors 
we pray.
For the abused, and the abusers
the lost and the frightened.
That they may discover your peace.
For us
as church, as individuals,
for the broken,
wearied by inner turmoil
burdened by outside pressures
grant us your peace 
we pray.
Thank you, Prince of Peace.

I was also called a blessing to the church this morning! You can fool some of the people etc.

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Now that's interesting. I thought I might as well see if I could return the t-shirt or if there would be similar problems. This time it says, your refund is being processed, no need to return the item! Have to wait and see if the refund comes through I guess, although this seems to be more of an Amazon thing.


8 comments:

jabblog said...

Better to be called a blessing than a curse. 😁

Abby said...

Maybe off the shoulder will be the next trend - you're ahead of the curve!
It's a gamble ordering things online, certainly for clothes and shoes. They often don't meet expectations unless they're something I'm already familiar with in real life. But alas, I *hate* shopping. Such a conundrum.

Debra She Who Seeks said...

That is a beautiful and moving prayer you wrote, Liz! Have you ever considered publishing a book of such prayers or perhaps meditations and such?

Boud said...

I like Debra's idea there. Please consider that. You can wear your off the shoulder sweaters to write in.

nick said...

Jenny and I try to do all our shopping offline so we can actually try things on and make sure they're the right fit. Also we don't want the hassle of having to return things that aren't quite right.

The Happy Whisk said...

Sorry about the jumper and that whole mess. Great on the shirt though. Once we ordered a standing freezer from Wayfair and the freezer arrived dented, dented, dented. They refunded us in full and told us to keep the freezer. Which we did for awhile until we gave it to a friend who got more use out of than us.

Following up on Debra's question ... Have you considered self-publishing your writitings?

Marie Smith said...

Debra had a great idea. That is a beautiful prayer.

Kathy G said...

Your experience is why I only shop for clothes at brick and mortar stores.