You may recall that some weeks ago I attended a book launch. I invited the author, Glenn Miles, to come and speak in Zac's, and that happened last night.
I was a little concerned because I knew there was a wide diversity of opinion: Glenn, a Christian, came out as a gay man three years ago when he was sixty, having previously been married, had children, and widowed. His talk was very open - and blunt - and I kept an eye on those I knew wouldn't approve of his stand. They sat there looking grim - but to be fair, they usually sit there looking grim.
Overall the reaction was positive. Those who supported Glenn were the ones who spoke; the doubters kept quiet. There is the possibility they may never darken Zac's doors again but at least they listened.* One man seemed to get a bit confused over transgender and homosexuality, and kept asking questions on the former, but Glenn was gracious and, of course, aware that it was a tricky subject.
So I can relax again. At least until the Book Fair. No, I'm not worried about that. If I make enough to cover the cost of the table (£10) I'll be happy, and if I don't, I'll still be happy!
*Two people deliberately didn't come and I found it sad that they weren't willing to be open and listen.
5 comments:
It's not uncommon for some people to come out later in life. They want to truly be themselves while there's still time. Contemplating the aging process and death can shake up priorities.
I know quite a few people who were married to a partner of the opposite sex, came out later. Usually young women, who'd been socially pressured into marriage, but who later had to be very brave, risking their families, to come out.
I'm glad your writer handled the event well. There's a lot of ignorance around sexuality. To this day I know people who insist it's a choice.
Thank you for making the evening happen despite your qualms.
Glenn always knew he was attracted to men, had conversion therapy, prayed for, etc.
Glenn took a chance with the group and it went well by the sound of it. It is good people were respectful! Good luck with the sales. I really enjoyed the book. Others will too!
Good for you and your group for being open and inclusive.
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