Saturday, February 18, 2023

Honesty doesn't always pay

At least not instantly or obviously. Of course I do have the satisfaction of knowing I did the right thing.

I began a new jigsaw today. 

When I opened the box I discovered lots of pieces were still joined together. Naturally I was obliged to break them all apart. It wasn't long before I was regretting that. Never mind: I did the right thing.

We were taken out for a meal once and when the bill came it was realised that a bottle of wine had been left off. There was much shushing and glee. It wasn't up to me to argue but I was uncomfortable. Again honesty for me didn't pay because I felt bad.

Which brings me back to my rant for today. I've complained about this before but there's a new angle on it now.

A cancer charity has sent out a free daffodil pin and sticky labels. (At Christmas it's foot-painted cards that arrive.) If I don't wear/use them I'll feel guilty for the waste. If I wear/use them I'll feel guilty because I will not be bullied into sending a donation.

We all have our own favourite charities (one of ours is a cancer charity) to which we donate regularly so I shouldn't feel guilty but will.

P.S. Trouble with t'internet is stopping me including photos. I'll keep trying.

P.P.S. This jigsaw has a very helpful aid. There is printing on the back meaning, if I have any doubt, I can check if pieces go together.




5 comments:

Boud said...

I do that honorable thing with jigsaw puzzles, too, taking apart where whole sections are still together. And wonder why when I struggle to get it started.

Chuck Pergiel said...

Numerous charities send out sheets of return address stickers, hoping, I suppose, to guilt us into sending a donation. I don't send donations to nobody for nothing, especially to some anonymous fund raising organization. But I use the stickers. They are handy, and it gives the charity free advertising. I suppose I am negative about this thing because I have been suckered into feeling sympathetic for slimeballs and I almost always regretted it.

Kathy G said...

In the US, Federal law says that the recipients of any unordered merchandise are under no obligation to pay for it. I use the 'free' note pads and address stickers and throw away cards but keep the envelopes to mail things in.

Debra She Who Seeks said...

I never feel guilty for using any promotional item sent to me unsolicited by a charity seeking donations. I didn't ask for the gift but hey, if the organization wants to freely give me one, who am I to say no. Thanks, charitable organization!

Ann said...

Hmm, now I'm wondering if I could do the right thing and break the puzzle pieces apart. :)
If I get free things in the mail with a request for donation I will probably use what they send but I don't feel obligated to send a donation.